36. Fear and "Inside Out 2"
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36. Fear and "Inside Out 2"

This sermon was delivered the Sunday after the 2024 Presidential election.

An election that has left many fearful.


[00:00:00] That's the tricky thing about fear. Even though it seems like it is protecting us and keeping

[00:00:06] us safe, it can also hold us back from the life that God invites us to live. And that's

[00:00:28] the tricky thing about fear. Even though it seems like it is protecting us and keeping

[00:00:33] us safe, it can also hold us back from the life that God invites us to live.

[00:00:39] That was from A Sermon on Fear and the movie Inside Out 2.

[00:00:45] This sermon was delivered the Sunday after the 2024 presidential election, an election that has left many fearful.

[00:00:54] In a moment, you will hear this sermon.

[00:00:57] I've listened to it three times now, and each time I've discovered something new.

[00:01:03] But if you're in a hurry, I created a mashup of the sermon highlights, which you can find at the end of this podcast.

[00:01:11] The other big development in my family, seemingly unrelated but perhaps not, is our new puppy Chica.

[00:01:20] She's a Havanese, the size of a small cat, and we put a bell on her collar.

[00:01:26] So if you hear a bell in the background today, it's not one of Santa's reindeer, it's our new puppy.

[00:01:33] For those of you watching on Spotify, I've included a short video of Chica at the end of this podcast.

[00:01:42] And now, Fear and Inside Out 2.

[00:01:47] Well, good morning.

[00:01:49] It is good to be here. Good to be together.

[00:01:53] About 10 years ago, Pixar released a great movie.

[00:01:57] How many of you have seen the movie Inside Out?

[00:02:01] A few. Okay, not everybody has seen it.

[00:02:04] All right, there's going to be some spoiler alerts.

[00:02:06] Just a heads up, it did come out nine years ago.

[00:02:09] So I don't think we can even call them spoiler alerts anymore.

[00:02:12] It's been nine years.

[00:02:13] The sequel came out this summer.

[00:02:15] But the original movie, 10 years ago, the tagline to the movie was,

[00:02:20] Meet the Little Voices Inside Your Head.

[00:02:24] The movie cleverly gives life and personality to a range of human emotion.

[00:02:29] Focusing on five key emotions.

[00:02:32] Joy, sadness, anger, disgust, and fear.

[00:02:38] These five core emotions live inside an 11-year-old girl named Riley,

[00:02:44] who faces huge transition and loss as she moves from a life full of ice hockey and friends in Minnesota

[00:02:51] to San Francisco.

[00:02:54] An urban reality that feels lonely and feels different.

[00:02:59] It's a very clever depiction of inner turmoil and tension between conflicting emotions.

[00:03:06] In the movie, fear is one of the characters, and he is pictured as the guardian of safety.

[00:03:13] He looks like that.

[00:03:15] He's always trying to protect Riley from danger.

[00:03:19] He's kind of a jittery little guy.

[00:03:20] He's hyper-aware of every possible danger that could come up in her day,

[00:03:25] and always on high alert for what might go wrong.

[00:03:29] On Riley's first day of school, Joy is organizing all of the emotions to prepare Riley for the best day ever.

[00:03:39] Right?

[00:03:40] She wants everything to go well and says,

[00:03:42] Fear, I need a list of all the possible negative outcomes on the first day of school.

[00:03:47] To which fear responds,

[00:03:48] Way ahead of you there.

[00:03:49] Does anyone know how to spell meteor?

[00:03:53] Fear makes suggestions like,

[00:03:55] I say we skip school tomorrow and lock ourselves in the bedroom.

[00:04:00] And at the end of the day, fear concludes,

[00:04:02] All right, we did not die today.

[00:04:04] I call that an unqualified success.

[00:04:07] Fear constantly frets, scanning for every risk.

[00:04:12] Ultimately, he is trying to protect Riley,

[00:04:15] trying to keep Riley safe from harm.

[00:04:17] But in his over-vigilance,

[00:04:19] we see how fear can lead us to pull back from life.

[00:04:24] And that's the tricky thing about fear.

[00:04:27] Even though it seems like it is protecting us and keeping us safe,

[00:04:32] it can also hold us back from the life that God invites us to live.

[00:04:39] In this season, between Halloween and Thanksgiving and Christmas,

[00:04:43] we often find ourselves gathering around the table

[00:04:46] with friends and family for food and celebration,

[00:04:49] perhaps more often than usual.

[00:04:52] And all this time around tables,

[00:04:54] with people that we love,

[00:04:57] people that we used to love,

[00:04:59] people that we are struggling to love,

[00:05:01] well, it can bring up a lot of feelings.

[00:05:04] Author Jen Hatmaker recently wrote,

[00:05:07] Holidays in their best years are fragile.

[00:05:10] This year feels particularly brittle,

[00:05:13] like it all might shatter with the slightest touch.

[00:05:18] That resonates a little bit with me.

[00:05:21] I just want to take a moment to recognize

[00:05:23] that we might be feeling a little more fragile than usual.

[00:05:28] This past week, with the national election,

[00:05:32] it may have brought up some feelings for us.

[00:05:35] You may have felt sadness,

[00:05:38] or surprise,

[00:05:40] or joy,

[00:05:41] or anxiety.

[00:05:43] Many of us may have felt that little voice of fear

[00:05:46] telling us to stay locked in our bedroom for a while.

[00:05:49] Whatever emotions that you are experiencing today,

[00:05:53] whatever feelings that have been rolling through your heart

[00:05:56] and your mind as you have walked through this past week,

[00:05:59] you are allowed to feel that.

[00:06:02] Okay?

[00:06:03] Not only allowed to,

[00:06:05] we worship a God who understands human emotion

[00:06:08] because he loved us enough to come in human form.

[00:06:12] He created us with emotion,

[00:06:14] and he lived it out himself.

[00:06:17] Hebrews 4.15 reminds us,

[00:06:19] we have a high priest who can feel it

[00:06:22] when we are weak and hurting.

[00:06:24] We have a high priest who has been tempted in every way,

[00:06:28] just as we are,

[00:06:30] but he didn't sin.

[00:06:32] Jesus lived a full human life

[00:06:35] with full human emotion.

[00:06:39] He laughed,

[00:06:40] he cried,

[00:06:41] he was angry,

[00:06:43] he felt sad,

[00:06:44] he felt happy.

[00:06:45] I don't know about you,

[00:06:47] but that feels very important to me,

[00:06:50] to know that our God does not just understand

[00:06:53] our human experience on an intellectual level,

[00:06:56] right,

[00:06:57] as our creator,

[00:06:59] as sort of the grand designer of humanity.

[00:07:02] He understands that level,

[00:07:04] I get it,

[00:07:05] but God understands our human experience

[00:07:07] on a very personal level

[00:07:09] because Jesus himself lived in this world

[00:07:12] with a human body

[00:07:14] and a heart

[00:07:15] and a soul

[00:07:16] and a mind

[00:07:17] that thinks and feels and functions

[00:07:19] in the same ways we do.

[00:07:21] So as we reflect

[00:07:23] on all of the emotions,

[00:07:24] the emotions that we bring to the table this month,

[00:07:28] I want to begin with the truth

[00:07:29] that paying attention to our emotions

[00:07:32] is vital to our spiritual health and wholeness

[00:07:36] because our feelings connect us with ourselves,

[00:07:40] with others,

[00:07:41] and with God.

[00:07:43] Some of you may be familiar with the book

[00:07:46] Emotionally Healthy Spirituality,

[00:07:48] written by Pete Scazzaro.

[00:07:49] He actually has a whole series of books on this

[00:07:52] and he actually built a whole church

[00:07:53] centered on this idea

[00:07:55] that emotional health

[00:07:57] is absolutely necessary.

[00:07:59] It's an essential part

[00:08:01] of our spiritual health.

[00:08:02] He says,

[00:08:03] ignoring our emotions

[00:08:04] is turning our back on reality.

[00:08:07] Listening to our emotions

[00:08:09] ushers us into reality

[00:08:11] and reality

[00:08:12] is where we meet God.

[00:08:15] Emotions are the language of the soul.

[00:08:18] I think it's really important

[00:08:20] to start here

[00:08:21] because I think

[00:08:23] that often

[00:08:23] in the church

[00:08:24] or in Christian circles perhaps,

[00:08:27] we have a tendency

[00:08:28] to dismiss feelings,

[00:08:30] to say

[00:08:31] that they're unimportant

[00:08:32] because thinking

[00:08:34] is really what's important.

[00:08:35] What we believe

[00:08:36] is really what's important,

[00:08:38] not what we feel.

[00:08:39] So we disregard our feelings

[00:08:41] or even worse,

[00:08:42] we beat them back,

[00:08:43] we stuff them down,

[00:08:44] we put them away

[00:08:45] on a shelf.

[00:08:47] We tend to do this

[00:08:48] not with all of our emotions

[00:08:50] but even more so

[00:08:51] with some of those

[00:08:52] so-called negative emotions.

[00:08:55] In her book,

[00:08:56] Untangle Your Emotions,

[00:08:57] pastor and author Jenny Allen

[00:08:58] talks about this reality

[00:09:00] of what happens

[00:09:01] in Christian circles.

[00:09:02] She says,

[00:09:03] somewhere along the way,

[00:09:04] maybe from things

[00:09:05] I heard at church

[00:09:06] or maybe just from growing up,

[00:09:08] I learned

[00:09:09] I wasn't supposed to be

[00:09:10] sad,

[00:09:11] angry,

[00:09:12] or scared.

[00:09:13] I was supposed to be okay.

[00:09:16] Every time I feel sadness,

[00:09:18] fear, or anger,

[00:09:19] emotions I've been conditioned

[00:09:21] to not want to feel,

[00:09:22] my brain immediately moves

[00:09:24] to fight off the feeling,

[00:09:26] much like my immune system

[00:09:28] takes down a virus.

[00:09:30] Pete Scazzaro echoes this idea

[00:09:32] when he says,

[00:09:33] many of us Christians

[00:09:34] believe wholeheartedly

[00:09:35] that anger, sadness,

[00:09:37] and fear

[00:09:38] are sins to be avoided,

[00:09:40] indicating that something

[00:09:42] is wrong with our spiritual life.

[00:09:45] Can you relate?

[00:09:46] Maybe you have had that thought.

[00:09:49] Anger is dangerous.

[00:09:50] It means we are being

[00:09:52] unloving towards others.

[00:09:53] We've got to stop it.

[00:09:55] Sadness.

[00:09:56] Well, that indicates

[00:09:57] a lack of faith

[00:09:57] in God's promises.

[00:09:59] You wouldn't be sad

[00:10:00] if you really trusted.

[00:10:01] And fear?

[00:10:02] Well, we all know

[00:10:03] that the Bible

[00:10:05] 365 times, right,

[00:10:07] enough for every day

[00:10:08] of the year,

[00:10:09] says do not fear,

[00:10:10] be not afraid.

[00:10:12] Now, I don't know

[00:10:13] if that's true.

[00:10:14] Has anybody ever

[00:10:14] tried to confirm that?

[00:10:16] Is that just one of those

[00:10:16] like Facebook memes

[00:10:18] or something

[00:10:18] about 365 days?

[00:10:21] Regardless of how many times,

[00:10:22] even a casual reading

[00:10:24] of the Bible,

[00:10:25] it's obvious that

[00:10:26] that whole phrase

[00:10:26] do not fear,

[00:10:27] fear not,

[00:10:28] be not afraid,

[00:10:29] it's in there a lot.

[00:10:30] Right?

[00:10:31] It's in there a lot.

[00:10:33] And I don't think

[00:10:35] that it means

[00:10:36] that God is like

[00:10:37] playing whack-a-mole

[00:10:38] with our fear

[00:10:38] and trying to beat it down.

[00:10:40] You know,

[00:10:40] don't be afraid.

[00:10:41] Fear not.

[00:10:41] Don't be afraid.

[00:10:42] I think it means

[00:10:43] that God knows us

[00:10:45] pretty well.

[00:10:47] I think it means

[00:10:48] that God knows

[00:10:50] that fear

[00:10:51] as a feeling

[00:10:51] is an absolutely

[00:10:53] natural

[00:10:53] and normal

[00:10:55] human response.

[00:10:57] We feel it

[00:10:58] a lot.

[00:11:00] The Bible's

[00:11:01] repetitive command

[00:11:02] to not be afraid

[00:11:03] is not

[00:11:04] an admonishment

[00:11:05] of the feeling

[00:11:06] itself,

[00:11:07] but rather,

[00:11:09] I think,

[00:11:10] as it turns out,

[00:11:12] God doesn't

[00:11:13] actually want us

[00:11:14] to live

[00:11:15] according to

[00:11:16] our natural,

[00:11:17] normal,

[00:11:17] human responses.

[00:11:19] Right?

[00:11:20] God wants

[00:11:21] more for us.

[00:11:23] God does not

[00:11:24] want to leave

[00:11:25] us living

[00:11:26] in fear.

[00:11:27] God wants

[00:11:28] to transform

[00:11:29] us.

[00:11:29] God desires

[00:11:31] to change

[00:11:31] us from the

[00:11:33] inside out.

[00:11:34] See what I did

[00:11:35] there?

[00:11:36] Inside out?

[00:11:38] Fear is a

[00:11:39] natural human

[00:11:41] response.

[00:11:42] There's a lot

[00:11:43] to be afraid of.

[00:11:44] But love

[00:11:45] in the midst

[00:11:46] of fear

[00:11:47] is a kingdom

[00:11:48] response.

[00:11:50] It was the

[00:11:51] late Henry Nowen,

[00:11:52] Catholic priest

[00:11:53] and author,

[00:11:54] who first planted

[00:11:55] this idea

[00:11:55] in my mind

[00:11:56] of the relationship

[00:11:57] between fear

[00:11:58] and love.

[00:11:59] Nowen said

[00:12:00] that hate

[00:12:01] is grounded

[00:12:02] in fear.

[00:12:02] So he believed

[00:12:04] that the opposite

[00:12:05] of love

[00:12:05] is not hate

[00:12:06] but fear.

[00:12:08] And the whole

[00:12:09] call of the

[00:12:10] Gospels

[00:12:10] is to move,

[00:12:12] as he says,

[00:12:13] from the house

[00:12:14] of fear

[00:12:14] into the house

[00:12:16] of love.

[00:12:17] The good news

[00:12:18] is that God

[00:12:19] is always

[00:12:20] inviting us

[00:12:21] to take steps

[00:12:22] out of the

[00:12:23] house of fear

[00:12:24] and towards

[00:12:25] the house

[00:12:25] of love.

[00:12:27] Because the house

[00:12:27] of love is where

[00:12:28] we experience

[00:12:29] freedom.

[00:12:29] The question

[00:12:32] that Nowen

[00:12:32] frequently asked

[00:12:33] in his writings

[00:12:34] was,

[00:12:35] how can we live

[00:12:36] inside a world

[00:12:37] marked by fear,

[00:12:39] hatred,

[00:12:39] and violence

[00:12:40] and not be

[00:12:42] destroyed by it?

[00:12:45] He posed this

[00:12:46] question 20 years

[00:12:48] ago,

[00:12:48] and it could not

[00:12:50] be more relevant

[00:12:51] than it is today.

[00:12:54] How do we do it?

[00:12:56] How do we live

[00:12:57] in this world

[00:12:58] and not be

[00:12:59] destroyed

[00:13:00] by the fear

[00:13:01] and the hatred

[00:13:02] and the violence?

[00:13:05] Nowen believed

[00:13:05] that the task

[00:13:06] of coming to

[00:13:07] spiritual maturity

[00:13:08] is linked

[00:13:09] with this movement

[00:13:10] from fear

[00:13:11] to love.

[00:13:12] This idea

[00:13:13] is best captured

[00:13:14] in 1 John 4,

[00:13:15] 18,

[00:13:15] where we read,

[00:13:16] there is no room

[00:13:18] in love

[00:13:19] for fear.

[00:13:21] Well-formed love

[00:13:22] banishes fear.

[00:13:24] Since fear

[00:13:26] is crippling,

[00:13:27] a fearful life,

[00:13:28] fear of death,

[00:13:29] fear of judgment,

[00:13:30] is one not yet

[00:13:32] fully formed

[00:13:33] in love.

[00:13:35] As followers

[00:13:36] of Jesus,

[00:13:36] we are called

[00:13:37] to be fully formed

[00:13:38] in love.

[00:13:40] And I wonder

[00:13:42] if in this

[00:13:43] current season,

[00:13:44] as a nation,

[00:13:46] as a church,

[00:13:46] as a community,

[00:13:48] this may be

[00:13:49] God's beautiful

[00:13:50] invitation

[00:13:50] to develop

[00:13:51] well-formed love

[00:13:53] in our lives,

[00:13:54] a love that

[00:13:55] banishes fear.

[00:13:57] Perhaps the antidote

[00:13:58] to fear

[00:13:59] truly is love.

[00:14:03] The kingdom way

[00:14:04] of life

[00:14:05] is not living in fear,

[00:14:06] but living in love.

[00:14:09] Relaxed

[00:14:09] instead of anxious,

[00:14:12] loving

[00:14:12] instead of fearful.

[00:14:15] When we can rest

[00:14:16] in our belovedness,

[00:14:18] we do not have

[00:14:19] to be anxious

[00:14:20] or afraid.

[00:14:21] When we can look

[00:14:22] at others

[00:14:22] through eyes of love,

[00:14:23] we do not have

[00:14:24] to be afraid.

[00:14:27] Perhaps the most

[00:14:28] powerful invitation

[00:14:29] in scripture

[00:14:30] to move from

[00:14:31] that house of fear

[00:14:32] into the house of love

[00:14:33] is found in Psalm 23.

[00:14:35] There's a reason

[00:14:36] it's the best-known

[00:14:38] psalm in the Bible

[00:14:39] and, I don't know,

[00:14:40] perhaps the best-known

[00:14:41] passage

[00:14:41] in the entire Bible.

[00:14:44] Psalm 23

[00:14:45] is not

[00:14:45] an instruction manual

[00:14:47] of how not

[00:14:48] to be afraid.

[00:14:49] Right?

[00:14:50] You'll notice

[00:14:51] it's not about

[00:14:51] do this,

[00:14:52] don't do that.

[00:14:53] It does more

[00:14:54] than tell us

[00:14:56] that God protects

[00:14:57] and guides

[00:14:59] and blesses.

[00:15:00] It paints

[00:15:01] a picture for us

[00:15:02] of what that

[00:15:03] really looks like.

[00:15:05] And then it paints

[00:15:06] us right into

[00:15:07] that picture.

[00:15:09] We are drawn

[00:15:10] into an understanding

[00:15:11] of God's provision

[00:15:12] and presence

[00:15:13] through poetic images

[00:15:14] of a powerless sheep

[00:15:16] being tended

[00:15:17] by an unfailingly

[00:15:19] careful

[00:15:19] and gentle shepherd.

[00:15:22] In a world

[00:15:23] of dark valleys

[00:15:24] and enemies,

[00:15:26] hunger and thirst,

[00:15:28] we need more

[00:15:28] than abstract

[00:15:29] explanations.

[00:15:31] We need images

[00:15:33] and metaphors

[00:15:34] and poetry

[00:15:35] to help us

[00:15:36] understand deep

[00:15:37] within our heart

[00:15:38] and our soul

[00:15:39] that kind of love

[00:15:41] that conquers fear.

[00:15:45] And so we read

[00:15:46] in verse 4,

[00:15:46] even though

[00:15:47] I walk

[00:15:48] through the darkest

[00:15:49] valley,

[00:15:50] the deepest darkness,

[00:15:51] the valley

[00:15:52] of the shadow

[00:15:53] of death,

[00:15:54] I am not afraid

[00:15:55] when you walk

[00:15:57] at my side.

[00:15:59] There is a reason

[00:16:00] that we don't have

[00:16:01] to live with fear

[00:16:02] because we

[00:16:03] are not alone.

[00:16:05] We are never

[00:16:06] alone.

[00:16:08] Christ

[00:16:09] is with me.

[00:16:10] Christ

[00:16:11] is beside me.

[00:16:12] Christ

[00:16:12] is above me.

[00:16:13] Christ

[00:16:13] is all

[00:16:14] around me.

[00:16:16] God has never

[00:16:17] promised us

[00:16:18] a pain-free life,

[00:16:20] but he absolutely

[00:16:21] promises his presence

[00:16:23] in the midst

[00:16:24] of our pain.

[00:16:25] I know

[00:16:26] that many of us

[00:16:27] have been witnesses

[00:16:29] to this reality,

[00:16:30] right?

[00:16:31] Shake your head

[00:16:32] if you have

[00:16:33] experienced

[00:16:34] God's presence

[00:16:35] in the midst

[00:16:36] of your pain.

[00:16:36] It is real

[00:16:37] and it is true

[00:16:39] and it is deep.

[00:16:40] I know

[00:16:41] in my own life,

[00:16:43] the time

[00:16:44] that I most

[00:16:45] deeply experienced

[00:16:46] the mysterious

[00:16:47] presence of Jesus

[00:16:48] beside me

[00:16:49] was when I was

[00:16:50] going through cancer

[00:16:52] and every single

[00:16:53] exam,

[00:16:54] all those times

[00:16:55] when I went

[00:16:56] into a room

[00:16:57] all by myself,

[00:16:58] I knew I was

[00:17:00] never alone

[00:17:01] and I literally

[00:17:02] felt Jesus

[00:17:03] with me,

[00:17:05] beside me,

[00:17:06] next to me

[00:17:06] and I know

[00:17:07] a lot of you

[00:17:07] have those stories.

[00:17:09] Christ,

[00:17:10] you are close

[00:17:11] beside me,

[00:17:12] guarding,

[00:17:13] guiding all the way,

[00:17:14] your trusty

[00:17:16] shepherd's crook

[00:17:17] makes me feel

[00:17:17] secure,

[00:17:18] says the message

[00:17:19] translation.

[00:17:22] Verse 5 continues,

[00:17:24] you prepare

[00:17:25] a table

[00:17:26] before me

[00:17:26] in the presence

[00:17:28] of my enemies.

[00:17:30] I have been

[00:17:31] thinking about

[00:17:32] this verse

[00:17:32] a lot lately.

[00:17:33] It's just one

[00:17:34] of those that's

[00:17:35] been kind of

[00:17:35] going through my head.

[00:17:36] I have always

[00:17:37] loved the idea

[00:17:38] that God

[00:17:39] is going to

[00:17:40] cook for me,

[00:17:41] right?

[00:17:42] I'm pretty

[00:17:43] sure that's

[00:17:44] what the verse

[00:17:44] says.

[00:17:45] God is going

[00:17:45] to make

[00:17:46] a meal

[00:17:46] for me

[00:17:47] and if you

[00:17:47] know anything

[00:17:48] about me,

[00:17:49] you know I

[00:17:49] really don't

[00:17:50] like cooking

[00:17:50] and so anybody

[00:17:52] who cooks

[00:17:52] for me,

[00:17:53] I feel so

[00:17:54] loved.

[00:17:57] You have

[00:17:58] my heart

[00:17:58] if you cook

[00:17:59] for me

[00:18:00] and I feel

[00:18:01] like Jesus

[00:18:01] is saying

[00:18:02] I'm going

[00:18:02] to prepare

[00:18:03] a table.

[00:18:04] I think

[00:18:04] the message

[00:18:04] says there's

[00:18:05] a six course

[00:18:06] meal ahead

[00:18:07] of you

[00:18:09] but there's

[00:18:10] also this

[00:18:10] phrase in

[00:18:11] there,

[00:18:11] you prepare

[00:18:11] a table

[00:18:12] before me

[00:18:14] in the

[00:18:14] presence

[00:18:15] of my

[00:18:16] enemies.

[00:18:20] Why does

[00:18:21] he have to

[00:18:21] throw that

[00:18:21] in there?

[00:18:22] Right?

[00:18:23] I was kind

[00:18:24] of enjoying

[00:18:24] that beautiful

[00:18:25] meal that

[00:18:25] Jesus made

[00:18:26] for me

[00:18:26] but it says

[00:18:27] that this

[00:18:28] table is

[00:18:28] prepared in

[00:18:29] the presence

[00:18:29] of my

[00:18:30] enemies

[00:18:31] and I have

[00:18:32] to admit

[00:18:32] I've always

[00:18:33] kind of

[00:18:34] thought of

[00:18:34] that as

[00:18:34] like oh

[00:18:36] I get to

[00:18:36] gloat in

[00:18:37] front of my

[00:18:38] enemies,

[00:18:38] right?

[00:18:38] Like God

[00:18:39] is saying

[00:18:39] I love

[00:18:40] you the

[00:18:41] best so

[00:18:42] I'm preparing

[00:18:42] a table

[00:18:43] and your

[00:18:43] enemies

[00:18:43] are going

[00:18:44] to watch

[00:18:44] and they're

[00:18:45] going to

[00:18:45] see what

[00:18:46] you get

[00:18:46] and they

[00:18:47] don't get

[00:18:47] it so I

[00:18:48] am assuring

[00:18:49] them that

[00:18:50] you are

[00:18:50] blessed.

[00:18:51] I don't

[00:18:54] know if

[00:18:54] that's

[00:18:55] actually

[00:18:55] the

[00:18:55] intention

[00:18:56] that is

[00:18:57] behind

[00:18:57] those

[00:18:57] words

[00:18:58] because

[00:18:59] lately

[00:18:59] I've been

[00:19:00] thinking

[00:19:00] about the

[00:19:00] fact

[00:19:00] that those

[00:19:01] enemies

[00:19:02] are there

[00:19:03] in my

[00:19:04] presence

[00:19:04] and that

[00:19:05] God's

[00:19:06] care

[00:19:06] and love

[00:19:08] and concern

[00:19:09] and provision

[00:19:11] for me

[00:19:11] it doesn't

[00:19:13] eliminate

[00:19:14] my enemies

[00:19:15] but it

[00:19:16] actually

[00:19:16] includes them

[00:19:17] in the

[00:19:18] scene

[00:19:18] and if I'm

[00:19:21] honest that

[00:19:22] makes me a

[00:19:22] little bit

[00:19:23] uncomfortable

[00:19:24] because maybe

[00:19:26] that means

[00:19:27] that they

[00:19:27] are also

[00:19:28] there

[00:19:29] at the

[00:19:30] table

[00:19:31] and maybe

[00:19:32] Jesus is

[00:19:33] also providing

[00:19:34] for them

[00:19:35] at the

[00:19:35] table

[00:19:36] maybe

[00:19:37] that table

[00:19:38] that God

[00:19:38] has prepared

[00:19:39] for me

[00:19:40] is actually

[00:19:40] big enough

[00:19:41] to include

[00:19:42] my enemies

[00:19:44] maybe it's

[00:19:45] not just

[00:19:46] about God

[00:19:46] showing my

[00:19:47] enemies

[00:19:47] that he

[00:19:48] loves me

[00:19:48] more

[00:19:48] but perhaps

[00:19:49] God is

[00:19:50] showing his

[00:19:51] expansive

[00:19:52] love for

[00:19:52] my enemy

[00:19:53] at the

[00:19:54] same

[00:19:54] time

[00:19:56] in hopes

[00:19:57] that I

[00:19:58] understand

[00:19:59] that I

[00:19:59] too

[00:20:00] am invited

[00:20:01] to expand

[00:20:02] my love

[00:20:03] maybe living

[00:20:06] in the

[00:20:07] house of

[00:20:07] love

[00:20:07] instead

[00:20:08] of the

[00:20:08] house

[00:20:08] of fear

[00:20:09] it's an

[00:20:10] invitation

[00:20:10] for me

[00:20:11] to love

[00:20:11] those

[00:20:11] enemies

[00:20:12] as well

[00:20:12] and finally

[00:20:15] verse 6

[00:20:15] surely

[00:20:16] your goodness

[00:20:17] and mercy

[00:20:18] will follow

[00:20:18] me all

[00:20:19] the days

[00:20:20] of my life

[00:20:21] and I

[00:20:22] will dwell

[00:20:22] in the

[00:20:22] house

[00:20:23] of the

[00:20:23] Lord

[00:20:23] forever

[00:20:24] the

[00:20:27] passion

[00:20:27] translation

[00:20:27] says

[00:20:28] so why

[00:20:29] would I

[00:20:29] fear

[00:20:30] the future

[00:20:30] only

[00:20:31] goodness

[00:20:31] and tender

[00:20:32] love

[00:20:32] pursue

[00:20:33] me

[00:20:33] all the

[00:20:34] days

[00:20:34] of my

[00:20:35] life

[00:20:36] this is

[00:20:36] a reality

[00:20:37] I want

[00:20:38] to hold

[00:20:38] on to

[00:20:39] we need

[00:20:40] to hold

[00:20:40] on to

[00:20:41] that Christ

[00:20:42] is pursuing

[00:20:43] me

[00:20:43] Christ

[00:20:44] is pursuing

[00:20:44] you

[00:20:45] with beauty

[00:20:46] and with

[00:20:47] mercy

[00:20:47] every

[00:20:48] single

[00:20:49] day

[00:20:51] seeing that

[00:20:52] recognizing

[00:20:53] all that

[00:20:54] is good

[00:20:54] and lovely

[00:20:56] and right

[00:20:57] and holy

[00:20:57] that is in

[00:20:58] my life

[00:20:58] and that is

[00:20:59] in the

[00:20:59] world

[00:21:00] this is a

[00:21:01] way to

[00:21:01] see the

[00:21:02] presence

[00:21:03] of Christ

[00:21:04] so pay

[00:21:05] attention

[00:21:06] to the

[00:21:06] beauty

[00:21:07] in the

[00:21:08] world

[00:21:08] to pay

[00:21:09] attention

[00:21:10] to the

[00:21:10] goodness

[00:21:10] of

[00:21:11] every

[00:21:11] day

[00:21:11] because

[00:21:12] when we

[00:21:12] recognize

[00:21:13] that beauty

[00:21:14] and that

[00:21:14] goodness

[00:21:15] we are

[00:21:15] bearing

[00:21:16] witness

[00:21:16] to the

[00:21:17] presence

[00:21:17] of Christ

[00:21:18] in the

[00:21:18] midst

[00:21:19] of the

[00:21:19] pain

[00:21:19] of this

[00:21:20] world

[00:21:20] we are

[00:21:21] giving

[00:21:21] voice

[00:21:22] to love

[00:21:22] and that

[00:21:23] love

[00:21:24] is the

[00:21:24] antidote

[00:21:25] to fear

[00:21:26] so

[00:21:28] if spiritual

[00:21:30] maturity

[00:21:30] is linked

[00:21:30] with moving

[00:21:31] from fear

[00:21:32] to love

[00:21:32] how do we

[00:21:33] stop ourselves

[00:21:34] from being

[00:21:34] sucked

[00:21:35] into the

[00:21:35] house

[00:21:36] of fear

[00:21:36] so that

[00:21:37] we can

[00:21:37] live

[00:21:37] in the

[00:21:38] house

[00:21:38] of love

[00:21:40] well it

[00:21:40] is a

[00:21:41] journey

[00:21:41] it doesn't

[00:21:42] happen all

[00:21:43] at once

[00:21:43] it's never

[00:21:44] going to

[00:21:44] happen all

[00:21:45] the way

[00:21:45] we live

[00:21:46] it out

[00:21:46] day

[00:21:47] to day

[00:21:47] but I

[00:21:48] want to

[00:21:48] suggest

[00:21:48] a few

[00:21:50] ways

[00:21:51] that we

[00:21:52] can work

[00:21:52] towards this

[00:21:53] because I

[00:21:54] think that

[00:21:54] the key

[00:21:55] is connection

[00:21:57] connection

[00:21:57] with ourselves

[00:21:58] with others

[00:22:00] and with

[00:22:01] God

[00:22:01] and this

[00:22:02] is why

[00:22:02] it is so

[00:22:03] important

[00:22:04] to not

[00:22:04] just stuff

[00:22:05] away

[00:22:05] our emotion

[00:22:06] because if

[00:22:07] we do

[00:22:07] that we

[00:22:07] are short

[00:22:08] circuiting

[00:22:08] this kind

[00:22:09] of connection

[00:22:11] so first

[00:22:12] I want to

[00:22:13] suggest

[00:22:13] that you

[00:22:14] allow your

[00:22:15] feelings

[00:22:15] to turn

[00:22:17] into a

[00:22:17] conversation

[00:22:18] with the

[00:22:19] triune

[00:22:19] God

[00:22:19] okay

[00:22:21] when you

[00:22:22] feel those

[00:22:22] things

[00:22:23] or if

[00:22:24] you're not

[00:22:24] sure what

[00:22:24] you're feeling

[00:22:25] maybe you

[00:22:26] don't even

[00:22:26] know

[00:22:26] that happens

[00:22:27] a lot

[00:22:27] right

[00:22:28] turn it

[00:22:29] into a

[00:22:29] conversation

[00:22:30] with your

[00:22:30] heavenly

[00:22:31] father

[00:22:31] the one

[00:22:33] who has

[00:22:33] created

[00:22:34] you

[00:22:34] and designed

[00:22:35] you

[00:22:36] the one

[00:22:36] who knows

[00:22:37] you best

[00:22:37] the one

[00:22:38] who created

[00:22:39] you with

[00:22:40] feelings

[00:22:40] and emotional

[00:22:41] responses

[00:22:42] the one

[00:22:43] who walks

[00:22:43] with you

[00:22:44] in your

[00:22:44] fear

[00:22:46] use your

[00:22:47] feelings

[00:22:47] to lean

[00:22:48] into a

[00:22:49] conversation

[00:22:49] with

[00:22:50] Jesus

[00:22:50] Jesus

[00:22:52] who is

[00:22:52] God

[00:22:52] incarnate

[00:22:53] Jesus

[00:22:53] who calls

[00:22:55] himself

[00:22:55] the good

[00:22:56] shepherd

[00:22:56] the good

[00:22:57] shepherd

[00:22:57] who knows

[00:22:58] his

[00:22:59] sheep

[00:22:59] Jesus

[00:23:00] who lived

[00:23:01] in a world

[00:23:02] of pain

[00:23:03] and lived

[00:23:04] in a

[00:23:04] body

[00:23:05] with

[00:23:05] feelings

[00:23:07] dialogue

[00:23:08] with the

[00:23:08] Holy

[00:23:09] Spirit

[00:23:09] who we

[00:23:10] are reminded

[00:23:11] over and

[00:23:12] over

[00:23:12] is called

[00:23:13] our

[00:23:13] counselor

[00:23:15] free

[00:23:15] therapy

[00:23:16] guys

[00:23:16] we got

[00:23:17] the Holy

[00:23:17] Spirit

[00:23:17] the Holy

[00:23:19] Spirit

[00:23:19] will comfort

[00:23:20] us

[00:23:20] will encourage

[00:23:22] us

[00:23:22] will give

[00:23:23] words to

[00:23:24] our groans

[00:23:24] when we

[00:23:25] don't even

[00:23:25] have the

[00:23:26] right words

[00:23:27] and we

[00:23:27] can't express

[00:23:28] our feelings

[00:23:28] ourselves

[00:23:28] the Holy

[00:23:30] Spirit

[00:23:30] lives

[00:23:30] within

[00:23:31] us

[00:23:31] and that

[00:23:32] right there

[00:23:32] that's

[00:23:33] what

[00:23:33] prayer

[00:23:33] is

[00:23:35] second

[00:23:37] connect

[00:23:37] with

[00:23:38] others

[00:23:38] and share

[00:23:39] your

[00:23:39] feelings

[00:23:41] our

[00:23:41] feelings

[00:23:42] can be

[00:23:42] bridges

[00:23:43] to

[00:23:43] connection

[00:23:43] not

[00:23:43] just

[00:23:44] with

[00:23:44] God

[00:23:44] not

[00:23:45] just

[00:23:45] with

[00:23:45] ourselves

[00:23:45] but

[00:23:46] with

[00:23:46] one

[00:23:46] another

[00:23:48] so

[00:23:48] whatever

[00:23:49] you are

[00:23:49] feeling

[00:23:50] don't

[00:23:51] keep

[00:23:51] it

[00:23:51] to

[00:23:52] yourself

[00:23:53] maybe

[00:23:54] even

[00:23:54] this

[00:23:54] week

[00:23:55] invite

[00:23:55] a

[00:23:55] friend

[00:23:55] for

[00:23:55] coffee

[00:23:56] or

[00:23:57] lunch

[00:23:57] or

[00:23:58] walk

[00:23:58] and

[00:23:59] don't

[00:23:59] just

[00:24:00] talk

[00:24:00] about

[00:24:00] the

[00:24:00] circumstances

[00:24:01] of

[00:24:01] your

[00:24:02] life

[00:24:02] resist

[00:24:03] the

[00:24:03] temptation

[00:24:04] to

[00:24:04] just

[00:24:04] talk

[00:24:05] about

[00:24:05] your

[00:24:05] job

[00:24:05] or

[00:24:06] your

[00:24:06] kids

[00:24:07] but

[00:24:08] talk

[00:24:08] about

[00:24:08] your

[00:24:08] interior

[00:24:09] spaces

[00:24:11] share

[00:24:11] your

[00:24:12] emotional

[00:24:12] temperature

[00:24:13] give

[00:24:13] language

[00:24:14] to

[00:24:14] the

[00:24:14] fear

[00:24:15] or

[00:24:15] anxiety

[00:24:16] that

[00:24:16] you

[00:24:16] might

[00:24:16] be

[00:24:17] experiencing

[00:24:17] in

[00:24:18] your

[00:24:18] own

[00:24:18] life

[00:24:18] right

[00:24:19] now

[00:24:19] because

[00:24:20] we

[00:24:20] help

[00:24:21] each

[00:24:21] other

[00:24:21] when

[00:24:22] we

[00:24:22] give

[00:24:22] voice

[00:24:23] to

[00:24:23] our

[00:24:23] feelings

[00:24:24] right

[00:24:25] I

[00:24:26] may

[00:24:26] not

[00:24:26] know

[00:24:27] what

[00:24:27] you

[00:24:27] need

[00:24:27] to

[00:24:27] hear

[00:24:28] but

[00:24:28] in

[00:24:28] sharing

[00:24:28] my

[00:24:29] experience

[00:24:29] God

[00:24:30] might

[00:24:31] be

[00:24:31] using

[00:24:31] that

[00:24:31] to

[00:24:32] meet

[00:24:32] a

[00:24:32] need

[00:24:32] for

[00:24:33] you

[00:24:35] finally

[00:24:36] I

[00:24:36] want

[00:24:36] to

[00:24:36] invite

[00:24:37] you

[00:24:37] to

[00:24:37] lean

[00:24:37] into

[00:24:37] connection

[00:24:38] with

[00:24:38] yourself

[00:24:40] make

[00:24:40] space

[00:24:41] and

[00:24:41] quiet

[00:24:41] to

[00:24:42] notice

[00:24:43] and

[00:25:01] like

[00:25:01] why

[00:25:02] did

[00:25:02] I

[00:25:02] yell

[00:25:03] at

[00:25:03] my

[00:25:03] spouse

[00:25:04] oh

[00:25:05] hmm

[00:25:05] maybe

[00:25:06] I

[00:25:06] was

[00:25:06] feeling

[00:25:07] a

[00:25:07] little

[00:25:07] bit

[00:25:07] anxious

[00:25:07] about

[00:25:08] something

[00:25:08] that

[00:25:08] happened

[00:25:09] at

[00:25:09] work

[00:25:09] today

[00:25:10] or

[00:25:11] why

[00:25:11] did

[00:25:11] I

[00:25:11] just

[00:25:12] sit

[00:25:12] and

[00:25:12] binge

[00:25:13] watch

[00:25:13] Netflix

[00:25:13] for

[00:25:13] three

[00:25:14] hours

[00:25:16] when

[00:25:16] I

[00:25:17] think

[00:25:17] about

[00:25:17] it

[00:25:17] I

[00:25:17] guess

[00:25:17] I

[00:25:18] was

[00:25:18] feeling

[00:25:18] kind

[00:25:18] of

[00:25:18] sad

[00:25:19] about

[00:25:20] that

[00:25:20] conversation

[00:25:21] that

[00:25:21] I

[00:25:21] had

[00:25:21] today

[00:25:23] why

[00:25:24] did

[00:25:24] I

[00:25:24] drink

[00:25:24] so

[00:25:24] much

[00:25:24] last

[00:25:25] night

[00:25:25] I

[00:25:28] think

[00:25:28] I

[00:25:28] was

[00:25:28] feeling

[00:25:29] afraid

[00:25:29] about

[00:25:30] the

[00:25:33] we

[00:25:33] to

[00:25:34] notice

[00:25:34] and

[00:25:34] we

[00:25:34] could

[00:25:38] choose

[00:25:39] healthier

[00:25:39] responses

[00:25:40] if

[00:25:40] we

[00:25:40] knew

[00:25:41] what

[00:25:41] feelings

[00:25:41] we

[00:25:42] were

[00:25:42] acting

[00:25:42] out

[00:25:43] of

[00:25:44] growing

[00:25:44] in

[00:25:44] awareness

[00:25:45] of our

[00:25:45] feelings

[00:25:46] is part

[00:25:46] of the

[00:25:47] spiritual

[00:25:47] journey

[00:25:49] and

[00:25:49] there

[00:25:49] are

[00:25:50] lots

[00:25:50] of

[00:25:50] ways

[00:25:50] to

[00:25:50] do

[00:25:50] this

[00:25:51] therapy

[00:25:52] prayer

[00:25:53] books

[00:25:54] I

[00:25:54] actually

[00:25:55] have

[00:25:55] a

[00:25:55] couple

[00:25:55] book

[00:25:55] suggestions

[00:25:56] for

[00:25:56] you

[00:25:56] but

[00:25:58] I

[00:25:58] don't

[00:25:58] want

[00:25:59] to

[00:25:59] talk

[00:25:59] about

[00:26:00] those

[00:26:00] right

[00:26:00] now

[00:26:00] because

[00:26:00] I

[00:26:03] it

[00:26:04] all

[00:26:04] goes

[00:26:04] from

[00:26:05] here

[00:26:05] up

[00:26:05] to

[00:26:05] here

[00:26:06] and

[00:26:07] we

[00:26:07] kind

[00:26:07] of

[00:26:07] intellectualize

[00:26:08] it

[00:26:08] and

[00:26:10] I

[00:26:11] think

[00:26:11] it's

[00:26:11] really

[00:26:11] important

[00:26:11] to

[00:26:12] feel

[00:26:12] our

[00:26:12] feelings

[00:26:13] in

[00:26:13] our

[00:26:14] bodies

[00:26:14] I

[00:26:15] want

[00:26:15] to

[00:26:15] suggest

[00:26:16] an

[00:26:16] embodied

[00:26:17] practice

[00:26:17] this

[00:26:18] week

[00:26:18] I

[00:26:19] want

[00:26:19] to

[00:26:19] suggest

[00:26:20] taking

[00:26:21] a

[00:26:21] walk

[00:26:22] taking

[00:26:23] a

[00:26:23] walk

[00:26:23] outside

[00:26:25] looking

[00:26:25] at

[00:26:26] the

[00:26:26] sky

[00:26:27] listening

[00:26:28] to

[00:26:28] the

[00:26:28] birds

[00:26:29] feeling

[00:26:30] the

[00:26:30] warmth

[00:26:31] of

[00:26:31] the

[00:26:31] sun

[00:26:31] on

[00:26:31] your

[00:26:32] face

[00:26:32] the

[00:26:33] wind

[00:26:33] in

[00:26:33] your

[00:26:34] hair

[00:26:34] as

[00:26:35] you

[00:26:35] walk

[00:26:36] remember

[00:26:37] that

[00:26:38] Jesus

[00:26:38] the

[00:26:39] great

[00:26:40] shepherd

[00:26:40] of

[00:26:40] the

[00:26:40] sheep

[00:26:41] walks

[00:26:42] beside

[00:26:42] you

[00:26:44] Jesus

[00:26:44] equips

[00:26:45] you

[00:26:45] with

[00:26:45] everything

[00:26:46] good

[00:26:46] for

[00:26:47] doing

[00:26:47] his

[00:26:47] will

[00:26:49] Jesus

[00:26:49] prepares

[00:26:50] a

[00:26:50] table

[00:26:50] for

[00:26:51] you

[00:26:51] and

[00:26:51] your

[00:26:52] enemies

[00:26:53] Jesus

[00:26:54] anoints

[00:26:54] you

[00:26:55] with

[00:26:55] oil

[00:26:55] and

[00:26:56] pours

[00:26:56] a

[00:26:56] cup

[00:26:57] that

[00:26:57] is

[00:26:57] overflowing

[00:26:59] Jesus

[00:27:00] pursues

[00:27:00] you

[00:27:01] with

[00:27:01] beauty

[00:27:02] and

[00:27:02] love

[00:27:02] with

[00:27:04] goodness

[00:27:04] and

[00:27:05] mercy

[00:27:05] this

[00:27:08] is

[00:27:08] about

[00:27:09] that

[00:27:09] whole

[00:27:09] idea

[00:27:10] of

[00:27:10] being

[00:27:10] childlike

[00:27:11] entering

[00:27:12] into

[00:27:13] the

[00:27:13] kingdom

[00:27:13] with

[00:27:13] heart

[00:27:14] and

[00:27:14] eyes

[00:27:15] of

[00:27:15] a

[00:27:15] child

[00:27:16] because

[00:27:17] we

[00:27:17] get

[00:27:17] cynical

[00:27:18] and

[00:27:18] we

[00:27:19] get

[00:27:19] hurt

[00:27:19] and

[00:27:20] we've

[00:27:20] seen

[00:27:21] more

[00:27:21] pain

[00:27:21] and

[00:27:22] we've

[00:27:22] seen

[00:27:22] more

[00:27:23] woundedness

[00:27:24] we've

[00:27:24] lived

[00:27:25] in

[00:27:25] the

[00:27:25] house

[00:27:26] of

[00:27:26] fear

[00:27:26] for

[00:27:26] a

[00:27:27] while

[00:27:27] and

[00:27:27] it's

[00:27:27] harder

[00:27:28] to

[00:27:28] move

[00:27:29] to

[00:27:29] the

[00:27:29] house

[00:27:30] of

[00:27:30] love

[00:27:30] so

[00:27:30] I

[00:27:30] just

[00:27:30] have

[00:27:31] a

[00:27:31] special

[00:27:31] word

[00:27:32] of

[00:27:32] encouragement

[00:27:33] if

[00:27:33] you

[00:27:33] are

[00:27:33] in

[00:29:27] feel

[00:29:27] so

[00:29:28] we

[00:29:28] disregard

[00:29:29] our

[00:29:29] feelings

[00:29:29] or

[00:29:29] even

[00:29:30] worse

[00:29:30] we

[00:29:30] beat

[00:29:30] them

[00:29:30] back

[00:29:31] we

[00:29:31] stuff

[00:29:32] them

[00:29:32] down

[00:29:32] we

[00:29:32] put

[00:29:33] them

[00:29:33] away

[00:29:33] on

[00:29:33] a

[00:29:33] shelf

[00:29:35] we

[00:29:35] tend

[00:29:35] to

[00:29:36] do

[00:29:36] this

[00:29:36] not

[00:29:37] with

[00:29:37] all

[00:29:37] of

[00:29:38] our

[00:29:38] emotions

[00:29:38] but

[00:29:38] even

[00:29:39] more

[00:29:39] so

[00:29:39] with

[00:29:39] some

[00:29:39] of

[00:29:39] those

[00:29:40] so

[00:29:40] called

[00:29:40] negative

[00:29:41] emotions

[00:29:42] God

[00:29:42] has

[00:29:43] never

[00:29:43] promised

[00:29:44] us

[00:29:44] a

[00:29:44] pain

[00:29:44] free

[00:29:45] life

[00:29:46] but

[00:29:46] he

[00:29:47] absolutely

[00:29:47] promises

[00:29:48] his

[00:29:48] presence

[00:29:49] in

[00:29:49] the

[00:29:50] midst

[00:29:50] of

[00:29:50] our

[00:29:50] pain

[00:29:51] use

[00:29:52] your

[00:29:52] feelings

[00:29:53] to

[00:29:53] lean

[00:29:53] into

[00:29:54] a

[00:29:54] conversation

[00:29:55] with

[00:29:55] Jesus

[00:29:56] Jesus

[00:29:57] who

[00:29:57] is

[00:29:58] God

[00:29:58] incarnate

[00:29:58] Jesus

[00:29:59] who

[00:29:59] calls

[00:30:00] himself

[00:30:00] the

[00:30:01] good

[00:30:01] shepherd

[00:30:05] connect

[00:30:06] with

[00:30:06] others

[00:30:06] and

[00:30:07] share

[00:30:07] your

[00:30:07] feelings

[00:30:09] our

[00:30:10] feelings

[00:30:10] can be

[00:30:10] bridges

[00:30:11] to

[00:30:11] connection

[00:30:11] not

[00:30:12] just

[00:30:12] with

[00:30:12] God

[00:30:12] not

[00:30:13] just

[00:30:13] with

[00:30:13] ourselves

[00:30:13] but

[00:30:14] with

[00:30:14] one

[00:30:14] another

[00:30:16] so

[00:30:16] whatever

[00:30:17] you

[00:30:17] are

[00:30:18] feeling

[00:30:18] don't

[00:30:19] keep

[00:30:19] it

[00:30:20] to

[00:30:20] yourself

[00:30:21] maybe

[00:30:22] even

[00:30:22] this

[00:30:23] week

[00:30:23] invite

[00:30:23] a

[00:30:23] friend

[00:30:23] for

[00:30:24] coffee

[00:30:24] or

[00:30:25] lunch

[00:30:25] or

[00:30:26] walk

[00:30:26] and

[00:30:27] don't

[00:30:27] just

[00:30:28] talk

[00:30:28] about

[00:30:28] the

[00:30:29] circumstances

[00:30:29] of

[00:30:30] your

[00:30:30] life

[00:30:30] resist

[00:30:31] the

[00:30:31] temptation

[00:30:32] to

[00:30:32] just

[00:30:32] talk

[00:30:33] about

[00:30:33] your

[00:30:33] job

[00:30:34] or

[00:30:34] your

[00:30:34] kids

[00:30:35] but

[00:30:36] talk

[00:30:36] about

[00:30:36] your

[00:30:37] interior

[00:30:37] spaces

[00:30:39] because

[00:30:40] we

[00:30:40] help

[00:30:40] each

[00:30:41] other

[00:30:41] when

[00:30:42] we give

[00:30:42] voice

[00:30:42] to

[00:30:43] our

[00:30:43] feelings

[00:30:43] right

[00:30:44] I may

[00:30:46] not

[00:30:46] know

[00:30:46] what

[00:30:47] you

[00:30:47] need

[00:30:47] to

[00:30:47] hear

[00:30:47] but

[00:30:48] in

[00:30:48] sharing

[00:30:48] my

[00:30:49] experience

[00:30:49] God

[00:30:50] might

[00:30:50] be

[00:30:51] using

[00:30:51] that

[00:30:51] to

[00:30:51] meet

[00:30:52] a

[00:30:52] need

[00:30:52] for

[00:30:53] you

[00:30:56] be

[00:30:57] brave

[00:30:57] stay

[00:30:58] safe

[00:30:58] and

[00:30:59] God

[00:30:59] bless

[00:31:00] this

[00:31:01] is

[00:31:01] Elton

[00:31:02] Sherwin

[00:31:02] and

[00:31:03] here

[00:31:03] is

[00:31:03] the

[00:31:04] video

[00:31:04] of

[00:31:04] our

[00:31:05] new

[00:31:05] puppy

[00:31:05] Chica